ENERGY HUGS

ENERGY hugs
One day in the cave of Hira, Muhammad SAW centerber'uzlah, the worship of his Lord. Has manydays he spent in a whimper, in prayer, in worship andhope in Him Who Menciptanya. Suddenly a figure emergesbeing in shape male figure. "Iqra!" He said.Muhammad replied, "I can not read!" BoysMuhammad was pulled into his arms, thenrepeat the command "Iqra!" Muhammad gaveanswer the same and similar events were repeated untilthree times. After that, Muhammad could read the wordstaught him. Later, the words becomeThe first revelation which Allah revealed to Muhammadby Gabriel, the creature bersosok men who meetMuhammad in the cave of Hira.On his return from the cave of Hira, Muhammad was looking for his wife Khadijahand said, "I Selimuti, selimuti me!". He trembled with fear,and then, the most wanted just one, warmth,calmness and confidence of the people he loves.Soul mate. Wife. Thus Khadijah was enveloped,hugged her and listened to the outpouring of his heart. ThenHe calmed her down and convinced him that whatMuhammad experienced is not something scary,but trust that he will be able to run.
In a personality management training. Theinstructor who also teaches middle psychologistsvarious psychiatric problems healing therapies. Fromall therapy given, always ending with a hug,both among fellow participants as well as by the instructor. ButThus, they are not willing to let participantsto embrace with the opposite sex to choose partnersarms to their opponents. What is important remainshug therapy. According to them, a hug is a therapymost efficacious in almost all psychiatric illness and emotional.Hugs will give a feeling of comfort and safety forperpetrators.Hugs will channel the energy of calm and peacefulnessfrom a hug to a hug. Will embracerelaxes the tense nerves. It is also justifiedthe results of research that, we need four times the hugs perday for survival, eight to stay healthy, and twotwelve times for growth. If you want to continue to grow, weneed twelve hugs a day. Hugs efficacioushealthy body. Hugs stimulate our immune.Hugs make us feel special. Hugs pamperingchildishness that is in us. Hugmake us feel more familiar with family and friends.Research shows that arms can healphysical and emotional problems faced by humans in the ageall-stainless steel and this wireless. Not only that, theexperts suggested that could make us long armsage, protect from illness, cope with stress and depression,strengthen family relationships and help you sleep soundly.(The Aladdin Factor, Jack Canfield & Mark Victor Hansen. ")Helen Colton, author of The Joy of Touching alsofound that when a person is touched, hemoglobinin the blood increases to supply oxygen to the heart andbrain more smoothly, the body becomes more healthy and acceleratethe healing process. It can be said that the arms couldcure the disease "heart" and stimulate the desire to livesomeone. Based on the results of research issued byjournal Psychosomatic Medicine, a warm hug torelease of oxytocin, a hormone associated withfeelings of love and peace. These hormones will suppresshormone that causes stress on the body initially languished.The result of these findings, providing scientific informationtop trends within every human being toget peace and warmth through hugs.Research provides scientific facts on the magnitudeenergy can be channeled through a hug.***Unfortunately, many of us grew up in a house init hugs is something unusual, and wemay feel uncomfortable asking hugged and hugged.We may never be teased as a "spoiled child" if oftenhug or be hugged my father, mother or our siblings. Andbe us or our teens today, grow withembrace energy shortage.Could be, lack of energy this hug is included incorrectone factor that led to rampant cases of instabilityhuman emotions like that happened lately: highcrime and drugs in the class of children and adolescents,possessed at various schools and so forth.And could be, in fact a solution to reduce variousthe problem is simple: Givinghug a lot of affection to the children of menparents. Was not very fond embrace Prophet's wife, children,grandchildren, and even small children in his neighborhood withembrace of affection? Even when ever there was one storyProphet kissed and hugged her grandson, a friendstated that until he has 10 children, nonehe had curahi with hugs kisses.Prophet then remarked, "It's people who do not wantloving (others), then he will not be loved. "(historyAl-Bukhari)***So from now on, do not hesitate to hug or askembraced. What we need when we are angry, sad ordisappointed is a hug, a hug from the husband's affection,parents or people we can kasihi.Pelukancalm, make us feel comfortable and loved.Likewise, after the war of words or a fight betweenhusband and wife? Memeluklah each other. Karenan will embrace itreduce emotional and soothing. It will embracereconfigure the bond of love between husband and wife after injuryand disappointment that had tertoreh. Embrace it, will makedomestic life became increasingly intimate.All the sad, all angry, all disillusioned, and all expenseslost by the warmth of a hug. Next make hugas a habit in living day to day. The first thingI want when I arrived home from the officeor from traveling is to hug his wife. Hugged him tightly.That's it. No More. The first thing I want whenI woke up from sleep is a hug and hug my wife.Held her tightly. That's it. Not the other.If we get up on the lag time is not equal, then the 'debt'habit was made after Lail prayer or prayer at dawn. Ifwe slept in different rooms, usually ahead of the dawn orFajr out, one of us will follow the other.Just for one thing only: to hug and cuddle.At night before bed, we used to lie and one anotherhugging, lingering as he talked about the activitiesOur all day. There are words that are at least three times a day Isay to my wife, "I Love U" and "Ask hug!"It feels something is missing if the lack of hugs in a day.Hugs gave me a sense of security and comfort. Hugs, mefeel a warmth that is not replaced bywhatever. Dare to try?

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The trouble UNDERSTANDING WOMEN

The trouble UNDERSTANDING WOMEN
One night, while walking alongKetapang port of Banyuwangi in East Java, aman found an old lamp placedon the rock. When he picked up and rubbed it, aJin suddenly appeared."All right, enough already!" Snapped Jinn."This is the fourth time in this month of people bothering me!I was so angry until I'm just going to give you onedemand instead of three! So come on, come on! Say whatyou want, and do not waste my time all day!. "The man thought quickly, then said,"Well, I always dreamed to go to Bali, but I'm afraid of flyingand I tend to seasickness on board. What ifyou make me a bridge to Bali? That way, I can ridecar to get there. "Jin laughed."Bridge to Bali! You must be kidding? How could Ireceive buffer to the bottom of the Sea? Itrequire too much steel, and is too muchconcrete! It absolutely can not be done! Think requestelse! "Disappointed, the man was trying hard to think ofother requests.Finally he said,"Well, I have other desires. All women inmy life said I was not sensitive. I tried and triedto please them, but nothing worked.I do not know where my mistake. One request isto understand women ... know how to actually feelingthem when they are silent to me ... know whythey weep ... know what they want whenthey do not tell me what they reallywant ... I want to know what makes them trulyhappy. "Silent for a moment, then Jin said, "You want that bridgebrindle two or four? "
MORAL STORY:women really so complicated to understand?============================================Source articles, from the book:Sudarmono, Dr. (2010). Pearl Heart-clear Morning Dew, 1001 Story Source of Inspiration. London: Idea Press. Volume 2. Hal. 351-352. ISBN 978-6028-686-938.
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